Pick Up Artist Secrets: Attracting a “10
November 30th, 2008
If you are interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a 10, then I think you’ll find this letter very interesting.But first off, let go waaay back…
When I was in high school, there was this girl in my class who was perfect.
She was smart, cool, and so beautiful it was hard to look at her (and yet I couldn’t look away)…
She was friendly to everyone and was one of the popular kids in school.
We talked occasionally, and looking back I realize we were flirting (I was too stupid to realize at the time).
I badly wanted to ask her to a senior prom but I chickened out at the last minute.
I realized after some few years that the girl had a crushed on me all the senior year.
I have talked to lot of men and this seems a common experience to them. they missed an opportunity to meet this ONE SPECIAL WOMAN who you crushed on from afar, or the girl had broke their heart…
Ah, the hard to tame “10,” a perfect girl that every guy dream of but never seems to have it.
I have a lot to say about so-called “10’s.” In one sense they are another “breed” of woman, but at the same time, it’s that kind of thinking that makes them so.
Understanding the reality of the extremely beautiful women and understanding your own fascination for a perfect women will help you resolve this conundrum, and might even help you in finding your “perfect girl.”
First thing, the idea about “10″ is just a myth. There’s no such thing as a perfect human being. You cannot tell that a girl is more “valuable” just because she looks beautiful than the other girl.
The only true “10″ is the one that’s perfect for you, a woman that turns you on, whom you have great chemistry with.
Subsequently, there are a lot of 10’s in the world, you just need to have the ability to meet a bunch of women, and make an options for yourself.
Treating a woman differently than other women just because she is prettier is a recipe for failure.
Why?
Because every other guy does that.
A woman knows what you’re thinking and sees you as shallow.
But there certainly a type of women that seems to have an another “level” beauty than the rest. These women get treated much differently than other women.
You need to understand this so that you will know how to treat these types of women.
As I’ve said, you shouldn’t treat women “differently.”
Let me clear this up.
You shouldn’t treat a woman BETTER than the other women. But there are things that you need to know.
First, she don’t like a guy that chases her for her looks alone.
A woman wants to be appreciated for her personality above anything else.
Now for the benefits of yours, I’ll give you a heads up.
There are two types of “10’s.”
High self esteem, and low self-esteem.
The pretty common is the low self-esteem 10’s. Women here have a guilt complex. Because they are used to being wanted for their looks, but they know that they didn’t EARN that attention.
In fact, they are in complete dumbasses or most probably their lives have been coasted.
It may sound harsh but I call it like that.
These type of women will respond to jerk-behavior. Taking away their validation will make them flip out and do anything to get it back.
Anything.
(Aside from that, these women usually suck in bed and are total head cases when you get involved with them.)
On the other hand, the high self-esteem 10’s women have had a taste of elite- they know early from the start that high levels of society were attainable to them, and they work hard to be successful, intelligent, and make the most of their lives.
They know that they can get closer to a great life than everyone else, and they are motivated to put a lot of hard work to attain that.
Usually these women have good attitudes, are intelligent, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.
Actually, most of beautiful women I’ve dated didn’t even go to the club. They like to spend their evenings being with their families, reading, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).
Another interesting thing is that these women are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?
The women here have a high standards for themselves, and this makes most guys either too intimidated to approached and ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it’s seldom they meet another man who is at the same level with them.
But here’s the good thing. If you understand The Attraction Code you will know that these women are the easiest to attract.
The Attraction Code is about being the best man you can be, being a “male 10.”
When you start to embody the Attraction Code you will surely notice an interesting thing.
Occasionally women that are less attractive will be rude to you and you’ll get an odd responses from them- that is because they know they’re not on your level - I call this as Auto-Rejection Mechanism. Some girls will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first.
But the most attractive, cool women will respond much differently… you’ll be surprised to see the most beautiful women warm right up to you as soon as you approach - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their “level.”
The woman will thinks “finally, a guy who can hang with me; he’s confident and treats me like a real person. And he’s the only guy who’s actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car.”
The Attraction Code is meant for these kinds of women. Of course you’ll also enjoy plenty of “adventures” with all kinds of women, but ultimately this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.
There are plenty of 10’s out there waiting for you.
Don’t spend another year of your life missing out.
Vin
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