The Top Five Flirting Tips For Men - Flirting Tips & Texting Tips

October 10th, 2008
by Tyler Tray
Flirting is becoming more and more significant every year. Before the 19th century, couples were betrothed (matched up) at early ages and there was no need for flirting. It wasn’t until after the 19th century that men and women started to step out of their community and traditions and it became their job to figure out their . Around the 1950’s, men and women started needing to have and develop basic flirting skills. Around the 80’s, it became clear that if you wanted to be successful with women you needed to have flirting skills. By the 20th century, flirting had become the determining factor in a man’s success with women. Now-a-days, if you want to be successful with women, you must be able to flirt in your texting, text messages, conversations and body language. Most importantly, men are not born knowing how to flirt and it’s a subject that’s evolving and changing throughout time. Right now, I’m going to share the top 5 flirting tips that have been proven to work in the 20th century. Every man that applies these flirting tips will see better results with women. These flirting tips have been used in my coaching seminars and proven to bring results. The best thing to do is try new things until you find what works. Enjoy these flirting tips: Flirting Tips #1 - Make Physical Contact Women communicate through physical interactions way more than men and you must communicate with her physically to be successful. Just make sure that it is non-threatening by touching her hand, arm or back. Once you initiate touch, make sure to let her touch you back to gauge her level of interest. If she responds to your touch, that’s a good indicator that she feels you are safe and that she is interested in you. Flirting Tips #2 - Leave on a high - get her laughing The ending is the most important part in a conversation - just like it’s the most important part in a speech. This is the final impression that sticks in her head. Let’s say you’re planning on meeting up with a girl. What you don’t want to do is end off a conversation with, “ya we will see you then, bye.” You would be a lot more successful if you ended it off with, “Yeah just try not to embarrass me.” or “Don’t forget to paint your toe nails.” or “This is where you say you can’t wait to see me and hope you can keep your hands to yourself.” It creates a lot more excitement in her to want to meet up with you or just interact with you again. Flirting Tips #3 - Qualify, Qualify, Qualify Qualifying is not easy for men. Men seemed to be affected by a good looking woman and then go into this mood of wanting to please her in any way they can. They basically sell themselves until they present a deal that costs the woman nothing. If it costs the woman nothing to have you or lose you, then you can imagine what kind of value that gives her. Don’t lose your value - that’s what is making her want you. The best way to maintain your value is by qualifying. You can do this by asking question like, “that’s a cool necklace did you get it traveling?” To keep it on the more flirty side you can do what is called roll reversal, “So are you going to ask me out or what?” or “You didn’t just tell me you liked hiking to get me to like you, did you?” Whatever you do, realize that you have no idea of what that good looking girl has to offer, so don’t treat her like she’s a queen, it doesn’t make sense. Flirting Tips #4 - Props This is a very easy one and it works really well for flirting. First understand that women search for tips on flirting with men 3 times more than men do. It’s because women want to flirt with men, but wouldn’t know what to say if they approached you. If you were to have something (a prop) to talk about, women would feel much more comfortable approaching you. Remember, when you are talking, you can have a set prop that you can use to be flirty instead of having to shoot into the wind all the time. For instance, you could have a bandanna that hangs out of your pocket or a hat that stands out or just a shirt that says something funny. Then, when a woman asks about the bandanna, you can say something like, “it was a rough time in my life, and I don’t think we’re good enough friends to talk about this yet” then you can go into some funny story or whatever you want. The most important thing about this flirting tip is that it breaks the ice and gets the conversation rolling. Flirting Tips #5 - Flirt through texting Being successful with women is becoming easier and easier for men. Why? Because communication through texting, text messaging, and sms text messages has became such a huge part of everyday communication. This is a gold mine for men. It gives you time to get the right message (which also improves your real world flirting), you can interact with more than one woman at once to increase your chances, and it builds your confidence. Most importantly, it cuts out all the potentially negative attraction triggers women usually see, such as clothes, smile, breath, hair, etc. All you’re left with are words and timing. Once you get the right words at the right time, you can expect a ton of success with women. And since most men fail at flirting in texting, you will stand above the rest, and you’ll see a lot of women responding desirably to you.
About the Author:
Tyler Tray is author of The Ultimate Texting Guide, the number one eBook for improving your success with women through flirting and texting. Visit http://www.TipsToTexting.com to learn more and get free flirting tips.

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