Win Back Your Ex - Make Your Ex Want You Back in Only Two Weeks
October 4th, 2008
You want to make your ex want you back. You want to show them you have changed, the situation has changed, how much you love them, and how you will rock their world, right? You want them to know how much you will do for them that you did not do before.
So what should you do first? What do you need to change about yourself? Well, maybe nothing. You love them. Is that not enough to make your ex want you back?
Obviously you truly want your ex back, and there are a handful of actions you should take to add to how appealing you are to your ex. Number one is, think and re-discover what it was that caused your ex to become attracted to you in the first place.
Was it how you looked, how funny you were? Are you smart, rich, a good talker? If you are clear about why your ex was first attracted to you, you’ll have a tool you can use to make your ex want you back.
Here is another important first step. Right after the breakup, stay away from your ex. This may seem like it does not make any sense, but there is a reason for it.
Do not make contact with your ex for at least a couple of weeks. A month is even better. Why you ask? Both of your emotions are flaming hot, and you’re both mad. If you definitely want to get back together with your ex, do not do things that will create a fight and lessen your chances.
Also, avoid text messaging at all costs. Your thumbs WILL get you in trouble. In fact, do not even call. You are wrong if you think that the way to make their ex want them back is to call their voicemail 20 times a day.
Equally important, beware of what you say about your ex. If you habitually think or say negative things about your ex, you will have much less control of your emotions. The same is true about “singing the blues”. This will also prevent you from balancing your emotions.
Lastly, get busy and do some things that are pleasant and enjoyable. This is the perfect way to end feeling miserable or depressed, and will quickly lift your spirits. That will increase your attractiveness to your ex. These are all simple things you can do, and will put you on track to make your ex want you back.
About the Author:
Lisa Dosett is an author and relationship coach. She has assisted 100s of couples through her teachings on How to Make Your Ex Want You Back. For a limited time you can enroll in her mini-course just for stopping by Relationship 911. Get Started NOW!
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